She’s on the table before you’ve finished washing your hands. “So I read that deep tissue is the best thing for sciatica, and I want you to really go for it. ChatGPT said three or four sessions should sort it out.” Your intake form says she’s had leg tingling for two weeks and hasn’t seen anyone about it yet.
Every therapist has had some version of this conversation. A TikTok stretch, a Google result, a friend’s chiropractor, and lately a confident paragraph from an AI chatbot. The client has done their homework. It just doesn’t match what’s in front of you.
Why this keeps happening
Most clients who do this are trying to be good patients. Looking things up before an appointment feels responsible, and for a lot of people it’s a habit now. A 2024 KFF poll of U.S. adults found 17% use AI chatbots at least once a month to find health information, rising to 25% of adults under 30. In the same poll, only about 3 in 10 said they trust chatbots to give reliable health information. So many clients arrive with advice they half-believe and want you to confirm or correct.
The trouble is that online advice is written for nobody in particular. It can’t see that this client’s “sciatica” might be something else, that she’s on blood thinners, or that her last deep tissue session left her bruised for a week. You can. That gap is the whole conversation.
And sometimes the advice came from you. A lot of clinic websites carry old blog posts written by a marketing agency or a former associate, with lines like “deep tissue is ideal for chronic back pain” or “book weekly for best results.” A client who quotes your own site back at you is harder to redirect, because they think it’s your recommendation.
How to respond in the room
Get curious before you correct. Ask what they read and what made it stick. “What did it say about your symptoms specifically?” often tells you what they’re worried about, which matters more than the advice itself. A client asking for deep pressure because they read it “breaks up knots” may really be asking whether you’ll take their pain seriously.
Anchor it to your assessment. Leave the source alone and tell them what you found. “Based on what I’m seeing in your hip and what you told me about the tingling, I’d start lighter today and see how you respond.” That keeps it about their body, which is the one thing the internet doesn’t have.
Explain the options so they can choose. If you’re recommending something different from what they came in wanting, treat it as an informed consent conversation. In Ontario, for example, the CMTO Standard of Practice for consent requires therapists to get consent before modifying a treatment plan, and to discuss the nature of the treatment, expected benefits, risks and side effects, and alternative courses of action. Other provinces and states have their own rules, so check with your college or board. The practical point holds everywhere: the client hears your reasoning and makes the call.
Know when to refer. If what they read is pointing at something outside your scope, like new numbness, unexplained pain or a possible injury, the right answer is a physiotherapist or doctor. Saying “I’d like you to get this checked before we go deeper” builds more trust than going along with it.
Write it down. Note what the client asked for, what you recommended and what they agreed to in your SOAP notes. If another therapist sees them next week, they won’t have to have the same conversation from scratch, and they won’t accidentally contradict you.
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Check your own website first
If clients quote your site, that’s the easiest version of this problem to fix. Set aside an hour and read every page that mentions a condition, a technique or how often someone should book.
Look for anything that reads like a personal prescription (“massage relieves sciatica,” “you should book every two weeks”) or a promise of results. Rewrite it to describe what you assess and how you decide, and add a short line that treatment depends on an individual assessment. Old posts that no longer reflect how you work can be rewritten or taken down. If you’re rebuilding the site anyway, our guide to what a massage clinic website actually needs covers the pages worth keeping.
Then ask your therapists one question: what do clients quote back to you most? Those are your next pages to fix, and often your best ideas for new content.
You can also bring the conversation forward. Add one question to your intake form: “Is there anything you’ve read or been told about your issue that you’d like us to know?” Clients answer it at home, before they’re on the table, and the therapist walks in already knowing what’s coming. It turns a surprise into a starting point.
The client who did their homework
It’s easy to find this frustrating. But a client who reads up before their appointment cares about the outcome, and that’s the client you want. What they need from you is a clear reason why your plan fits their body better than a paragraph written for everyone.
Handled well, the “but I read that…” moment is one of the best chances you’ll get to show what an assessment is worth. We’ve written more about setting client expectations and building trust with new clients if this comes up a lot in your clinic.